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Hi – I have alsways been hugely impressed by your sites and philosphies and often wondered about seeking to visit. I do have kind of a problem and wonder whether you feel that you might be able to help. I am 47 and only fairly recently discovered the pleasure that is to be had from being with men but i am left rather hurt and frustrated by the fact I have never really experienced pleasure from being fucked. I sometimes catch glimpses of the pleasure to be had from a cock in the arse and am very much up for bondage and a bit of mild domination and pain but somehow when it comes to being fucked it is not comfortable and pretty unfulfilling. i am pretty sure this is due to a lack of experience and relaxation on my part and perhaps over eagerness and lack of sensitivity on the part of my partners so far. I am absolutely sure that a more sympathetic experience would produce the kind of pleasure and fulfilment I am looking for. I can imagine myself tied in a sling chair and gently but firmly taken in hand by an expert and really shown what a man can do. Might you be able to help me with this?
Seb Cox Replies : I can certainly point you in the right direction. I am convince the best way to experience anal pleasures, is not with a cock in your arse, butt rather my gently loving touch. Having a cock in your arse is more about a feeling of “fullness”, it’s more of a psychosocial thing. I can show you the skills you need to be able to relax your arse. How you choose to use these skills, is entirely up to you. Butt, remember there are 11 positions to recieve anal lips blessing massage...
The Spoons Position: Have the man lay on his side. You can also lay on your side behind him, so you can cuddle him with one hand while you massage his magnificence with your other. With this position you are closer to your partner so you can judge their reaction to what you're doing.
Missionary position has the man receiving lay on his back while you approach from on top. Lift up the calves, exposing his gorgeous arse. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other. This way you can masturbate the man and is a great position for cuddling as well.
'Doggie style' is a great position for beginners to anal massage, allowing the deepest penetration and permits the man to better open his arse for massage.
Flying Doggie. A variation of the popular doggie style position in which the masseur stands behind the man (instead of kneeling) and places their feet outside the legs of the man. The receiver will keep his legs closer together. Take care to start slowly, as the different angle of approach will stimulate different areas of his tight arsehole.
Wheel Barrow Position, the masseur approaches the man from behind, similar to doggie style, but lifts the receiver's legs into the air. The receiver must support themselves with their arms only or lay flat on a bed or chair. The masseur holds the receiver's legs on either side, as though lifting a wheel barrel. But be careful, this position gives the masseur an incredible amount of power to go deep!
Full front has the man lie on his back, drawing his knees up to his chest. You can place a pillow under his lower back to raise him even higher.
Bending over stand up, facing the same way, and the man bends over at the waist, using a wall, table, or other support. This can also be done on the knees, rather than the feet, at the edge of the bed. When both partners are not of the same height at the waist, some adjustment will have to be made. This position is convenient to use outdoors. It allows easy penetration and full movement if there is something solid around to hang onto.
Stomach position has the man lie flat on his stomach. Anal Massage using this method is not as easy and you are not able to massage as deeply.
Above position has both partners roll over on their sides, still facing the same way, with one leg drawn up. This position allows bodily relaxation plus free hands to explore and caress. Anal Massage is easy and fairly deep with this position. Movement is somewhat limited, though vigorous massage is still easy once you get used to the posture.
Straddle position is great because it allows the man to control the speed and depth of the massage. Have the man lay flat on his back on the bed, then straddles him and slides his arse back. Anal Massage is easy in this position and entry can be deep. The man should slowly lower himself down, as too quick a drop can be deeply penetrating.
Anal Kama Sutra position, the masseur should be flat on his back, with the man on top facing the feet of the masseur. The man should lean as far toward the feet as possible, and then commence penetration. This angle tends to maximize anal pleasure while delaying orgasm.
Anal Massage is done to with an intention to have you claim your asshole for your pleasure. Finding that your asshole is available for pleasure may be like discovering a second set of genitals. Even if you are experienced with anal penetration, you may have found it initially painful and have defined anal pleasure as the absence of pain. Gentle external anal massage with gloved fingers is hygienic, extremely pleasurable and deeply relaxing. Most of your asshole’s nerve endings are on its surface so I devote much attention to external anal massage. The inside of the rectum has fewer nerve endings so penetration is mostly about feeling pressure and fullness. If penetration is desired, I carefully soften the external muscles by playing with your asshole’s resilient edge of resistance to allow you to experience penetration that is entirely painless and completely enjoyable. Anal massage is a great way to learn skills to receive and give anal pleasure. For more details of my anal massage please click here
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