a high-energy climax bi/ Psiman

Have you ever seen, or do you remember a movie called “Demolition Man” ? It starred Sylvester Stallone and Sandra Bullock. Wesley Snipes was in there too. Well there is a (futuristic) sex scene in there (takes place in a virtual reality environment &ldots; fluid exchange is felt to be “Eeewww, disgusting!” by society.) The Virtual Reality version of sex pretty much visualizes for me what perfect sex between two people would be like, except in our world it would be experienced in one’s own emotional/psychological space instead of cyber-space. Essentially Lenina Huxley and John Spartan engage each other intimately(mentally/emotionally) gradually move from some virtual/physical contact into a total blending together with each other into One Sacred Creation. That leads to the climax (such an inadequate word to describe it!!) experience when they, as one, explode in pleasures involving just about all their senses, tuned to the epitome of pleasure, resonating through their beings and they congeal back into their own, separate, corporeal and individual selves. The movie “Cocoon” also has a really nice sex scene where the two people never touched physically, but nevertheless were joined by the energy of the Spirit, uniting them and transporting them to a high-energy climax. Either of those portrayals kind of explains my philosophy of the intimate experience of sex. It is my goal, one which I feel is achievable, though it may mean finding one’s true soul-mate (or a similarly compatible soul). But I don’t believe it has to be that idealistic. If two (or more, perhaps?) people can come together without guile, without guilt, without preconceptions; reaching out to each other without hidden agendas; the simple purpose of enjoying each other’s God-given gifts of the body, mind, and spirit may be enjoyed once, perhaps twice, or even again and again, for however long they mutually desire it.

Never looking beyond the moments spent together, not worrying about what the other person may be thinking, planning, scheming, and never once fearing the possibility that there will be no more should one or the other leave. To simply realize that One is miraculously attracted to the Other, both sacred, both blessed &ldots; and to CELEBRATE that realization and HONOR it. There should be no such thing as “unrequited love”. It is a wonderful literary device, but also a double-edged sword, for it is pregnant with fearful ideas. Unacknowledged love (or infatuation, if you prefer) is insidious and painful. And yet we give it cute names like, “puppy love”&ldots; that seems so sad. And most of all, I feel that feelings (how’s that for a self-defining statement??) are real, can be strong, and cause very real stimulation within our physical bodies. It can cause the full spectrum of experiencing extreme joy to insufferable pain. And yet, to voice what we feel in an appropriate, meaningful and loving way will dispel the strongest emotion. We can be happy about sharing our feelings of attraction and love, and joy shared is doubled. We can feel sad over something, and share that with someone we care about (and who cares about us), and begin to heal, to feel better. And sorrow shared will be cut in half, or in thirds, or in quarters. The important thing, as I see it, is to just SHARE!!! Not our money, which can be misused, abused, lost, stolen, or burned. Not our food, which grows and is harvested and it comes to nourish us in our physical selves. Those things are the easiest of all things to share. Rather, to share me with you in humble communication; to have learned to listen so that I can fully appreciate what you are sharing with me, whether I am listening with my ears, my eyes, or my sense of touch. We have so many ways we can communicate ourselves — share ourselves. And yet somehow our imagination seems to fall short when it comes to finding ways to use our various gifts to communicate. Maybe sex is such a problem these days, because we have buried our essence and our need to communicate intimately under various contrivances and wild imaginings that couldn’t be further from the truth. What truth? The truth that should be shared between all people, that I might dislike something you DID, but I still can LOVE YOU! You may express your feelings to me, and for whatever reason, my feelings are not similar. That doesn’t mean I cannot understand, cannot appreciate your feelings, or empathize with your need to express them. We can still love each other. And when our needs are expressed, and communicated honestly without expectation, only then will we be able to help each other. I learned a long time ago, and believe it to be true: We are not here to see through each other, but rather, to see each other through. Why not ENJOY it? Enjoy the experience, the journey, and enjoy the results (and even any lack of expected results!) of any effort honestly put forth. In the words of the Scarecrow in the Wizard of Oz &ldots;”Oh, JOY ! — RAPTURE!” I don’t know if what I have said here is right, or even reasonably true. And if there is any truth to be heard, may the wind of the Spirit guide it to your understanding. If anything should be wrong or harmful, may it be snuffed and drowned out by the other Truths that the winds of Spirit always carry. Finally, May God stand between you and all the dark places you may walk. — -_=Psiman

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